Warning Signs (Find out before its too late!)

My best friend's husband just left her right out of the blue. She is going through a really hard time trying to recover and move on with her life. She had no clue it was about to happen. I couldn't help but wonder if there were warning signs? Things she could have picked up on to predict it was about to happen to prepare herself? Maybe even stop it from happening? If you are as curious as me to what the warning signs are I found this link to warning signs for married women of possible wife abandonment syndrome (even if your husband has not talked about being unhappy in the marriage)

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Music works

There are many types of therapy out there, but one of the most extraordinary must have to be music. When you can relate to the lyrics in a song it practically makes you want to get up off your seat and sign along as loud as you can. Music can be therapy for good times, sad times even confusing times. When you’re going through something as hard as a divorce, music can be your therapy. We can all relate to “I will survive” by Gloria Gaynor at some time or another in our lives. Check out this list of great songs that can help anyone make it through the hardship.

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Have you ever?

Have you ever loved someone who does not love you back? Maybe he was in love with you and you were happy back in the days, but then he started to change? A lot of men are having a hard time talking about their feelings, and instead of addressing the issues in the relationship, they often pull back in their shell like a turtle. One day they can’t take it anymore, and they just decide that it is about time they do something with the miserable situation they are in. But unfortunately, men often take the easy way out – leaving a wife behind with nothing. The women are stuck with children, a house, and all the parental responsibility! Women that are usually strong and cheerful may turn into emotional wrecks; they feel that their whole world has fallen apart. I wouldn’t know what to say to a woman in this situation, but luckily we women are good at sharing stories with each other. Click here if you or anyone you know has ever been or is currently in this situation – it’s a great support community for women that’s been abandoned by their husbands!

http://bit.ly/c0UYQE

the strength to move on

It has been five years since he left me, but I still remember it like it was yesterday. We had two kids together, whom had both moved out, and have families on their own now. Even though they are very helpful and supportive, there are days I feel like I am all alone in this world. My husband cheated on me, and I haven’t been able to date again since then. He made me feel so worthless.
After I found out about the cheating, I was willing to forgive him, and give the marriage another try. But he much more wanted to be with her, and he moved out on me just a week later! When a person you love that much prefers to be with somebody else than you, even though you have been married for 20 years, you feel so worthless. He really made me feel like a stupid nobody that was not good enough.
I didn’t know if I ever could be strong enough to love somebody again, but lately I found this web site called Runaway Husbands for abandoned women where you can meet and chat with women who share your experience. It has been a great help for me so far, and I feel that I might be ready to go on a date again some day. I recommend other woman in my position to visit this web site:

http://bit.ly/c0UYQE

Stay Strong

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have." - Unknown


After 10 years of marriage and two kids, my aunt found herself in an unhappy marriage. Though she knew it would be hard, she found the strength to leave her husband and start a new life. Although she knows the divorce was for the right reasons, she still finds herself overwhelmed and trying to pick up the pieces of her life while staying strong for her little girls. To make matters worse, her ex-husband is not helping with the children! She has had to sell her car and move into a little apartment. She is turning to her family and friends for moral and financial support.

However, we haven't lived through what she is living through. We offer comforting words and try to keep her hopeful but I feel that it is not enough. She needs the encouragement from people who have been in her situation for they are the only ones who truly understand. I came across this website and am so amazed at the moral support women offer other women! I'm looking for words of wisdom or words of advice to help my aunt through this tought time.

So I am asking you, where and/or how do you find the strength to move on?

http://bit.ly/c0UYQE